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    An Arrow Pointing To Heaven::Chapter 1

  1. Have you ever wanted to explore your roots? Why? How far back have you seen? And how do you think this quest might be different if you are adopted?
  2. How do/did your parents affect who you are today? And how do you think you are affecting your children?
  3. How did Rich come to truly know and understand his father? Why did it take this one particular event to make it clear?
  4. What have you done to try to better understand your parents?
  5. How much influence of our parents is genetic? How much is social?
  6. Read aloud the lyrics to First Family. What things come to mind while reading it?
  7. What does it mean to "honor" our father and mother? Should we then also "honor" our children? If so, how?
  8. Now consider the letter Rich wrote "from" his Dad to himself. Reactions? Why do you think it was so hard for Rich to write this?
  9. Are there things about you that your parents did not like? Why? And have we "returned the favor" with our own children?
  10. What does it feel like to be an "outsider?" How did it influence Rich?
  11. On p. 25, Bryan says Rich "...was too saintly for the sinners and too sinful for the saints." How can this be? Ever felt this way?
  12. What is home? What did Rich mean when he often said that he was "homeless?"

   
   
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